Crime and punishment
When a woman is happy, she goes above and beyond to please her man and family in every single way, even if it means sacrificing her own happiness and needs. So conversely, does it also mean that when a woman is not happy, she should do the opposite?
Diane:
Yes, I don’t think a woman should be sacrificing her own needs for someone who is taking her for granted. I was once dating a guy who used me royally for my money, and when I realised what was going on, I stopped being nice to him and he disappeared. Ladies, spoil no man unless he is spoiling you.
DN:
I had a friend and every time she and her husband had an argument or a fight, she would take off her ring and would stop cooking, cleaning and doing anything else for him. I used to be so upset at what she was doing until I got married last year. Everything was perfect as expected, but homeguy got comfortable and started taking me for granted, so yes, I cut out the things I used to do for him, including cutting his toenails.
TG:
I think that if things are not equal in the relationship, it is time to reevaluate that relationship. No man should treat his woman badly and expect a hot meal on the table, clean clothes and a clean house.
LR:
No woman should feel used and still be giving of herself. Once a woman realises that she is being taken for granted, she should ensure that she cuts off all the homely duties. Make your point that way.
DF:
I am not doing a thing for a man if he is using me.
