Should you wait?
Some women think that the longer they keep the lid on the cookie jar, the more the men will desire them, see them as wife material, and marry them. But while there have been some that this has worked for, others have proved that meaningful relationships are less about following tradition to the ‘T’, and more about taking risks.CC: Ryan:
Years ago, it was taught that a man wouldn’t want the cow if he was getting the milk for free, and that the sooner a woman went to bed with a man, the sooner her reputation goes down the drain. But there have been too many variations for this to still hold true, as the two people below share:
I am engaged to be married and I dated my man for two months before we got intimate, and we are good. Time is not important when it comes to love. Plus there are men who will wait on women to sleep with them, however long it takes, then they’re gone!
From a man’s point of view, time is not important. I could meet a girl now and I just know she is the one and I could see a hot one and wait forever until she gives me what I desire and then leave. It is all about “spirit tek”, that is all there is to it.
