Why arguing can be a good thing
SOME couples believe that if they are having a series of arguments with their partners, it could mean they are incompatible, when the truth is, it is just two people figuring out each other’s needs and wants. There is absolutely nothing unhealthy about arguing. What is unhealthy is when it is done every second of every day until it escalates to abuse. 1. It brings to the center-stage your personality2. It teaches you to respect and compromise3. You learn more about your relationship
Here are three benefits of arguing in your relationship.
There are no two human beings alike. We have diversity in personalities although we may share habits, and because of this, people are bound to have disagreements. Because someone disagrees with you or they may dislike something about you, that doesn’t mean that they hate you or want you to keep away. People simply have different perspectives and one thing that settles an argument is simply respecting the person and their opinion even if you believe it is wrong.
If the argument is over a serious matter, it can be a push factor to strengthen your relationship. It also pushes both individuals to respect each other and their voices. It can be a bother in a relationship when there is an argument and no one is listening or showing respect for how they both feel about the other person’s opinion. You have to allow your partner to express their emotions and then you both compromise. Remember, no one is ever like you though they may share similar traits, so you must meet in the middle to grow.
You do this by listening and then analyzing the core issue of the argument. You will begin to understand your partner more, like what upsets him/her and what can improve a particular situation. It is more than making up, it is ensuring you pass a phase and you grow as a couple.
