From Neighbours to Soulmates
In this tale, Jamaican warmth met Egyptian generosity in Ireland. For Egyptian-born Khaled Ahmed, it was love at first sight, but former Jamaican health-care assistant Michelle Duncan’s heart took a while to catch up. She met her now husband 15 years ago when they lived in the same building. They’d both moved to Dublin for work.
“He was always greeting me and even offering me small gifts. We started as friends for quite a while before deciding to take the next step.” The idea of a second chance at finding and keeping love gradually grew on her. So, too, did the reality of their relationship.
“I knew nothing about Islam until I lived in the Republic of Ireland and became friends with Khaled. It took a long time to decide whether to go forward with the relationship or not, always thinking about my children and family in Jamaica,” recalled Michelle, a native of Spanish Town. Reflecting on their discussions about culture, practices, and religion, she noted that love proved to be patient. After a year, they entered into a serious relationship. Not long after, they welcomed their first son, Adham, followed by their youngest, Amir. Starting a family together required embracing each other’s cultures, a process Michelle describes as seamless. Over the years, Khaled intentionally built strong relationships with her older children, further earning her respect.
They decided to marry on June 21, 2024, at the luxurious Castleknock Hotel along the northern banks of the River Liffey — a choice made by their sons. Michelle wore a stunning mermaid-style sequinned dress with long sleeves, complemented by long pearl earrings. Her soft tulle veil cascaded down her back adding an elegant touch. Khaled donned a royal blue suit. Their sons were part of the wedding party and the guest list included her Jamaican-Irish community. One hundred and twenty guests celebrated their day with them. Too small by Jamaican and Egyptian standards!
Jamaican-Egyptian culinary traditions took centre stage at the reception on that sunny day in Dublin, featuring halal options to honour Khaled’s family. Michelle changed into a white and gold organza ensemble. The lively fusion of Jamaican rhythms and Arabian melodies created the perfect atmosphere for the celebration, and their 12-year-old son Adham stole a well-deserved moment with his ‘best man’ speech.
But all good things must come to an end, and as the last melodies faded and guests began departing, the serendipitous marital story of Michelle and Khaled was only just beginning.
Script by: Bridgett Leslie, banking professional and freelance lifestyle journalist based in New York City