A lament for our children
Dear Editor,
In this age of relentless technological onslaught, when the siren call of screens beckons our children, we must heed the urgent cries of our collective conscience.
For too long we have allowed the cold embrace of machines to usurp the tender bonds that should define our family life. Are we, in our exhaustion, succumbing to the siren song of the screen? Are we, in our desperate need for respite, handing over our children to the cold, indifferent embrace of the machine?
I know you all can think of, or readily have in mind, that kid you know who is already enslaved to the alluring tablet. This is the symptom of a malaise that afflicts us all. Do we not see the corrosion of our children’s formative minds, the insidious way these devices, with their seductive dings and hollow emojis, seek to replace the irreplaceable — warmth of human connections, the richness of lived experiences?
But what choice do we have, really? The suffocating grip of parenthood has us enthralled, our exhaustion a mere smokescreen for the far more insidious crime: our complicity in raising a generation of screen slaves. Five hours a day the average child’s brain is being reshaped, rewired, and reduced to a mush of mediated relationships and vacuous interactions. We know it, we sense it, and yet we persist in this charade, feeding our children to the scripts of corporate behemoths who masquerade as benevolent providers of ‘content’.
The evidence is mounting, a silent indictment of our digital dependence. Five hours a day our children are bombarded with the flickering, seductive light of social media, their developing minds melded by algorithms that whisper promises of connection, of belonging, of fleeting validation. We see the vacant stares, the twitching thumbs, the hollow laughter, and we tell ourselves it’s just a phase, a harmless distraction. But the truth is, we are losing them, bit by bit, to the seductive whispers of the digital world.
We are raising a generation of ghosts, their faces illuminated by the cold, blue glow of the screen, their souls adrift in a sea of likes and shares. We are losing the art of conversation, the intimacy of touch, the joy of shared laughter. We have become so enamoured with the illusory joys of social media that we have lost sight of the very essence of what it means to be human. We are losing the very essence of what it means to be human.
We must wake up. We must reclaim our children from the clutches of the machine. We must teach them the value of silence, the power of imagination, the beauty of the real world. We must teach them to connect, to love, to be truly alive. The future of our children, and perhaps our own, depends on it. For we are losing our children, yes, but in the process, we are also losing ourselves.
The hour is late, but the choice is ours. Will we succumb to the allure of convenience, or will we rise to the challenge of reshaping the world we bequeath to our children? Will we continue to sleepwalk into a future in which childhood is merely a distant memory, a nostalgic relic of a time when humans were still human? It is time to reclaim the sanctity of the home, to rediscover the power of human connection, the depths of empathy, and the majesty of undistracted presence.
Let us cast off the shackles of our digital servitude and embrace the radical act of being fully present, of cultivating an environment in which our children can thrive, unburdened by the tyranny of the screen.
Yannick Nesta Pessoa
yannickpessoA@yahoo.com